Behind every effective leader is often an equally impactful partnership — the Executive and their Executive Assistant (EA).
When this relationship is working well, it’s not just helpful — it’s transformative.
It’s a dynamic I see often in my work. When an EA is empowered and the relationship is built on trust, clarity, and the right systems, both people flourish.
And I speak from experience — in a past chapter of my career, I was an EA myself. I know the dance. I know how much smoother things go when there’s clarity and trust, and how frustrating it can be when those things are missing. That lived experience is what now fuels my passion for helping exec–EA duos create partnerships that really work.
Here’s what I believe makes all the difference.
It’s Not Just Delegation — It’s Leverage
A strong EA partnership doesn’t just remove tasks from an executive’s to-do list. It actively amplifies their focus, energy, and effectiveness.
A great EA manages time, energy, and attention on behalf of the executive. They help create space — not just in the calendar, but in the executive’s mind — so they can stay focused on what matters most.
Shared Clarity Builds Trust
When both people are clear on priorities, decision-making processes, and communication rhythms, trust flows naturally.
The more context the EA has, the more they can anticipate rather than react. And when the executive treats their EA like a true partner — not just a helper — the entire relationship levels up.
Systems Make Everything Smoother
Structure supports success.
When the executive and EA have shared systems — for calendars, task tracking, and communication — there’s less friction and more flow.
Start with a daily check-in (10–15 minutes) to align on priorities, and a weekly planning meeting (30–45 minutes) to reflect, prep, and plan ahead. These rhythms might seem small, but they create a foundation for big things.
A clear inbox process, shared task system, and protected calendar blocks can go a long way in helping both people feel on top of things.
Empowerment Is Key
An EA who’s empowered to take initiative is a game-changer.
This means encouraging decision-making autonomy, making space for questions, and allowing them to own parts of the workflow. When an EA is confident in their role, the executive can let go of the smaller stuff and focus on the big picture.
That’s when momentum really builds.
The Relationship Goes Both Ways
A successful executive–EA partnership isn’t just about what the EA can do — it’s about how both people support each other.
It’s about respect, shared goals, and creating space for each person’s growth and wellbeing. When the relationship is mutual, everyone benefits — and so does the organisation.
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If you’re in one of these roles — or if you’re supporting someone who is — now might be a good time to check in:
Is this partnership running like a well-oiled machine, or could it do with a tune-up?
Do your systems support or stress you?
Are you both feeling empowered and clear on what matters?
Whether you’re starting fresh or want to fine-tune your flow, I can help. At florandorder, I work with executives and EAs to build rhythms and systems that support how you want to work — calmly, clearly, and in control.
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Let’s build a partnership that helps everyone do their best work — and feel good doing it.
