“I can make it work…” is a dangerous phrase


Slade, you deep mustard cardigan with 3/4 sleeves, meet my readers. Readers meet Slade.

I fell in love with Slade in March 2016, it was the colour that did it for me but like a romance doomed to fail from the beginning – dear Slade is up for donation in November 2016.

I should have known really. I was standing in front of the store mirror – admiring the colour – and rather than feeling completely awesome, I kept thinking ‘I can make this work… yep, I can make this work, with this kind of top… maybe that dress…. it won’t look soooo… textured?’

So I bought dear Slade, and we had a few nice times but it just never felt right and after a particularly daggy feeling day together, I broke it off. Enough is enough. I added ‘mustard’ as a keyword to my clothing shopping list and then popped Slade in the donation bag.

Lesson learnt – ‘I can make it work’ is a dangerous phrase of mine and I’ll try and resist it in the future. I’ll dig a bit deeper and see what it is that I do like about an item and instead of trying to make it work I’ll wait until the best option comes my way.

Does this line of thinking sound familiar? What’s your tell tale signal to yourself that you’re not making the best purchase that you could?



All that junk inside that…drawer!


Do you have a dumping ground that just happens to be in a drawer? Do you remember what’s in it? Have you seen the bottom of said drawer recently?

If you answered YES, NO, NO to the above questions it may be time to give the following a go.

Firstly, lets rename it. Words are powerful and labeling something, a junk drawer will attract just that – junk! So, lets take a step back and think about what you want for the space.

Once you’ve had a think about that and decided on a theme for the drawer, pull everything out. EVERYTHING. Give it a wipe down, give it a thorough clean – go on! It deserves it!

Pull a garbage can close so you can toss out very obvious things. Put aside things that need to be housed elsewhere and make a pile of the things that will return to the drawer now that it has a fresh purpose.

Once finished, start placing things back into their newly vamped home. Use containers (takeaway food containers are great, as are jars) to keep things orderly and then voila! Your new drawer has purpose and I predict, will no longer hurt your eyes. Junk no more!

Now that you’ve successfully completed an overhaul of this space, there’s no reason why the same principles can’t be applied to other organising projects that you may have been wanting to tackle. Successes keep you going – so keep this one in mind and give yourself a well deserved pat on the back!


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Managing Memorabilia


I’m a sentimental sort. For over a decade now I’ve kept a wall calendar as a way of documenting my life – where I’ve worked, who I’ve lunched with, what movies I’ve seen, where I’ve travelled, sick days, that sort of thing. I’ve also for as long as I can remember collected and kept memorabilia. Movie tickets, theatre and exhibition tickets, theatre programs, festival and hospital wrist bands, business cards of places I’ve been, you name it. At one stage I had many overflowing boxes of memories – yep! Confessions of an organiser here!

Years ago I went through my memorabilia collection and weeded out items that had lost meaning to me. It helped make the collection have a structure but there were still a lot of loose pieces of memorabilia that, out of context and so far from their origin, would mean little to me in several years.

It wasn’t until I was inspired by a friend’s method of stapling her tickets and business cards to her wall calendar that I combined these two habits of mine and the change in connection to my memories was phenomenal.

My process for the past three years has been:

A) throughout the month I keep tickets, business cards of places I’ve eaten at and miscellaneous items (notes from people – funny receipts);

B) at month’s end I sit down and enter the details using my Google calendar as reference; and

C) I then collage and staple the mix of memorabilia to the calendar pages (see above photo).

If you’re wondering about what I do if there’s an exceptionally busy month – well, I get strict. If something won’t fit on the page or will cause the calendar to bulk too much it gets tossed or I have two things from one event (for example – if I have a show booklet and a ticket I will keep the ticket and not both because the ticket will fit better). So far this policy hasn’t failed me yet and my calendars have remained bulk free and easy to store.

I find that this process gives me time to reflect about the last month and I get to visually see where an event fit in my life timeline (especially if something significant occurred). An additional bonus is that I rarely forget a great restaurant’s name anymore!

Are you a sentimental sort? What are your solutions?




Freezing milk and other things my Mum’s taught me

glass-1587258_640These life hacks come directly from my Life Hacking Queen of a Mum:

  • You can freeze milk if you don’t think you’ll use the whole carton. When you’re ready to use it again simply pop it in the sink to defrost or sit it in some cold water or defrost in the microwave on low (depending on how desperately you need that coffee or tea!).
  • You can also freeze cheese… especially cooking cheeses, such as Parmesan, bags of shredded pizza cheese, actually, you can freeze most things – your freezer is your budgeting and non-waste friend!
  • The best muesli mix is one that you make yourself (and not just because you can mix in Cocoa Puffs or Honey Nut cereals). Buy a few different packs of cereal and mix all together with some supermarket home brand rolled oats. Bonus tip: Use laundry pegs as clips on opened cereal bags to keep them fresh.
  • Ants hate lemon rind – if you find you’ve got a production line of ants racing through your kitchen drop some lemon rind pieces along the track and they’ll soon get lost.
  • Vinegar and Bicarb Soda are a great cleaning team – most cleaning problems from stains to mold can be solved with this duo.
  • Soak a white jacket in vinegar if red wine has splashed on it (even if it’s days old) – I swear it will be gone in a day’s soak!
  • A cooked chook from the supermarket can be used for an amazing number of easy and delicious meals. One being to serve with a ready-made curry/pasta sauce to tantalise your taste buds.
  • Use a matchstick to quickly singe an end of something, such as skirts, shoelaces, threads – instead of having to sew.
  • Hang your clothes to dry on the line by the edges to avoid lines drying deep into your clothes; or even better – use a clothes hanger which you can then pop back into your wardrobe as is.

Shop your wardrobe


A recent bout of ‘I have nothing good in my wardrobe’ and ‘I hate everything I own’ (yes, even after what I consider a very successful style journey, I have those days too) led me to revisit my method of finding new and interesting outfit combinations.

Possibly the biggest hurdle is to get out of the rut in the first place. My instinct is generally to Google pretty much anything that I am struggling with and this time was no exception. Jumping online I typed in the exact phrases above and the results provided me with just the right information to kick start my imagination.

A very helpful suggestion was to take out everything you own, get it out of the wardrobe and piece by piece look at each item, really focus on them for a moment before putting each item back in place. This has the effect of refreshing your relationship with the items (because they are out of ‘context’) and reminds you of what you actually have to play with. I’ve done this often in the past but ruts have a funny way of making you forget earlier successes.

Having looked through all my pieces I then took on another suggestion from Google and poured over my favourite stores’ websites and look books. Jumping on Pinterest and browsing ‘layering outfits’ or searches specific to a certain colour top or jacket was also useful as I took notes whenever the thought popped into woman-1326707_1920.jpgmy head ‘I can do that with that…’

In the end I had two A4 sheets worth of ideas. Over the next couple of weeks, what changed for me was that getting ready in the mornings was exciting again. Each day I would pick one idea off of the pages and see whether it worked or not. If it didn’t, I made notes about why I felt it didn’t quite hit the spot and that ended up being of value as well.

Note: Allow extra time for getting ready if following this method as sometimes the first option isn’t so great in practice – or better yet, try the combo the night before.

This process sounds simple and at some level I knew what I needed to do the moment that I began lamenting my situation, but it’s the reminder to go to the beginning and to refresh every time you find yourself in a rut that kick starts the creative flow once more.

So consider this your reminder if you are feeling pigeonholed by your clothes – shop your wardrobe and climb out of your rut!


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Phone Home Screen Refresh

smartphone-1138914_1920Smart phones can become easily cluttered, what with all the apps available for download and the important role that they play in most people’s lives.

Every so often I like to clear my home screen to refresh my relationship with my phone and to take stock of my apps.

This is a technique that I’ve used on my Samsung phones and I’ve trialled it on a couple of iPhones as well.

  1. Before clearing anything, make sure that everything on your home screen is available in the Apps menu (maybe even take a screen shot just to be safe).
  2. Hit the Menu key to take you to the edit Home Screen Tabs and remove all the Home Screen pages (this will give you a blank screen when you next unlock your phone).
  3. Enjoy the momentary blank canvas that is now your phone.
  4. Start filling in the canvas – as you go to message someone, take a photo, flick through Instagram or add an event to your calendar, whatever the action may be, add that program’s widget to your home screen.
  5. Over the course of a few days your home screen will soon support your most important apps. Plus there’s the added bonus of feeling like you have a new phone for a little while again (or so I always feel anyway).

This is also a great opportunity to go through and uninstall any apps you haven’t touched in a while, this frees up storage memory and allows your phone to work that little bit faster.

Have a go and let me know how it felt!

A Sentence a Day… COMPLETED


I started kikki K’s A Sentence a Day journal on August 1, 2013. There have been several versions since I got mine but the basic concept remains similar.

The idea is that for three years you respond to a sentence a day and once complete you look back at how your answers have changed over time, pausing to reflect on your thoughts, feelings and experiences.a_sentence_a_day_journal_pause_inside_2

Well, it’s now 2016 and I’ve finished the journal. *Applause*

I’m a sucker for anything kikki K produces, I love it all, so when I spotted the journal (all those years ago) I was keen to give it a go. At first I was very diligent, I even waited until the beginning of August so that the journal would read quite neatly (I had considered waiting til the start of 2014 but thought that that was going too far).

For a couple of months I did pull the journal out once a day; sometimes before bed, sometimes before work. I was doing well for a while there. Then I slipped, I’d forget and a few days would go by so I started responding to a few days at a time. And then it became a weekend ritual looking back over the week. But then I REALLY slipped up and ended up filling out a month’s worth of responses at a time.

During these monthly updates, I would put a lot of effort into disguising that I actually hadn’t been doing the exercise daily. In attempt to pull the wool over my own future self’s eyes, I would refer back to my phone calendar and enter day specific information. Questions such as ‘What are you most looking forward to tomorrow?’ became guesses of how I had thought in the past about a date that had already gone by.

I tried not to look at the entries from previous years until I’d entered that year’s answer – this was an aspect that I found interesting. Sometimes my answers were the same and sometimes they were very different. On some occasions my memory was jogged when I couldn’t recall who or what I was referencing  in previous answers.

So apart from slipping up and completing the exercise in monthly batches, I did find the experience pleasant. However, I am relieved that it’s over and I have no intention of committing to the latest version of the journal – for me it’s definitely a one time event.

Have you undergone such a commitment? What did you think?


Hat box? Tool Kit? Both?


This may look like just a decorative and beautiful hat box, but take the lid off and you’ll find everything needed to quickly mend or alter clothes, accessories, and shoes.

Inside the hat box you’ll find…

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Lint brush – special velvet that quickly removes fluff and lint from clothing and other fabrics.

All Weather Protect All – Protectors help waterproof and protect everything from shoes and bags, to coats and outdoor equipment. I reapply several times throughout the year.

Anti static spray – Eliminates Static from clothing and hosiery and is a very  useful item to keep in the desk draw.

Craft glue – a water based adhesive, perfect for bonding paper, cardboard, wood, wool, fabrics and more; I use this for accessory repairs.

Leather conditioner – cleans, nourishes & restores leather, patent leather and accessories.

Leather hole punch – I got annoyed with having to go to someone every time I envisioned an additional belt or sandal hole improving an item, so I bought my own leather hole punch online – voila!

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Thread and needle – I’m not a great sewer but I can patch a few holes and mend holey pockets if need be.

Lint shaver – ideal for use on a range of garments (especially winter knits) to remove those annoying balls of pilling and lint.

Dubbin – a wax product used to soften, condition and waterproof leather and other materials. Fun fact: Dubbin has been used since medieval times to waterproof and soften leather boots.

Superglue – I always have superglue on hand and will even take a tube when travelling. I use it on shoes, accessories and appliances. I buy an inexpensive pack of six from Dollar Stores or K-Mart.

Scissors – my scissors mainly help me out with cutting back loose threads which I can’t help but see when I look down at an outfit!

Craft and Jewelry Jaw Pliers – very useful for extending the life of costume jewelry through assisting in mending and alterations.

And that’s it for now. My tool kit expands as unique needs arise, and I’m often replenishing its contents. With that in mind, I’m off to the shops to grab some shoe polish which I am clean out of!

Do you have a tool kit at home? What else have you found invaluable?


Taking the clutter out of periods


Periods and all the paraphernalia that go with them, don’t usually come to mind when thinking about life efficiency. I certainly hadn’t thought that there was anything more that could be done in the area but then I was introduced to menstrual cups and my eyes were opened.

I began using a menstrual cup in January 2015 and it didn’t take long to become a convert. In the beginning it was a bit of a change, fast forward to the present and I can’t imagine using pads or tampons regularly anymore (to be honest they were a bit of change too but much longer ago so I’d forgotten).

On top of being good for the environment and changing the lives of women in developing countries, menstrual cups are an organised person’s dream. Here are a few ways that I’ve found that menstrual cups can support an organised lifestyle:

  1. Outfit choices remain the same during my period – sometimes certain underwear has to be worn with specific outfits, but with a menstrual cup I no longer have to alter my outfit choices to suit the time of the month. It was always frustrating while using pads to grab a dress -that required shape wear- or pants -that I knew needed a g-string- and sigh when I remembered that I needed to stick to the outfits that only required basic underwear. No more!
  2. Underwear is kept clean – once I was fully on a roll with my menstrual cup, leaks became a thing of the past. I no longer have ‘good underwear’ that I save for when I’m not having my period and ‘I don’t care if I have to toss it underwear’, I just have underwear now.
  3. There’s no trash – no more sneaking wrappers to a bin after applying a pad or tampon and there’s no need to carry around extra supplies.
  4. There’s only one small item to store when not having a period – plus there’s no more having to store a variety of pads to accommodate the different levels of a cycle. I keep a few ‘just in case I feel like reminding myself why I love my menstrual cup’ pads or tampons in stock and that’s it. It’s nice to have some more free space in the bathroom.
  5. Travel packing becomes a lot more compact – if I’m anticipating having my period while travelling, my menstrual cup takes up far less space than pads which is always a good thing. Also, it saves me from purchasing additional pads if my period comes surprisingly early while overseas and then having to store those when I return.

My menstrual cup cost me $60 from a health food store. It’s been about 18 months now so that works out to roughly $3.33 each month. In comparison to the amount I would have spent on pads, say $3.99 per 12 pads (Chemist Warehouse price), that works out to $71.82 – so I’m already coming out on top. Considering that a menstrual cup can be used for up to 10 years, apparently, I’m looking at my cup costing about 50 cents per month by that stage. Amazing!

Birthday Rewards


My birthday was last month and while this is a life hack, having fun while budgeting sort of post, it’s also a shout out to all the loyalty programs that made my birthday extra great! If you shop with these stores or have any interest in them, and aren’t yet a member of their loyalty programs I’d encourage you to sign up. Likewise, maybe stores that you do shop with have a similar program that you can become a part of and so enjoy some sponsored shopping through.

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Metalicus – $20

With the help of a $15 loyalty voucher, I got a scarf and a laundry wash bag.






Country Road – $20

I put this voucher towards a lovely grey top that my wardrobe has been lacking.




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I stocked up on pens with this fabulous pack of five.





Witchery – $20

I benefited from the 3 for 2 offer on socks. I love fresh socks more than anything in the world… lovely lovely.







Sportscraft – $20

On top of a super sale discount, this beautiful bag meant that I only spent $9.40 of my own money. Can’t wait to take it out for a spin!



Mimco – $30

Another year, and a new hair cut, which I feel demands new accessories! For only a few extra dollars, I picked up a set of fancy spancy Mimco slides – perfect to mark the occasion and change.



A great birthday haul if I do say so myself. Thanks again to these great loyalty programs and stores!